Hey ladies, Let’s cut the BS. It’s time for some uncomfortable honesty from your friendly neighborhood “good guy” who’s tired of being your backup plan.
The Dating Game You’re Playing
Truth bomb: You’re not “taking time to find yourself.” You’re:
- Chasing emotionally unavailable men
- Getting played by guys with commitment issues
- Crying over dudes who don’t text back
- Making excuses for red flags brighter than your future
- Friend-zoning guys who actually care
“Let’s be real — you don’t want a good man. You want a bad boy you can ‘fix.’”
What You’re Really Doing
Stop lying to yourself. You’re:
- Swiping left on stability because it’s “boring”
- Running from genuine connections because they’re “too intense”
- Choosing chaos and calling it “chemistry”
- Dating potential instead of reality
- Setting yourself up for heartbreak… repeatedly
The Hard Pills You Need to Swallow
- Your “type” is toxic
- Your dating patterns are predictable
- Your “high standards” only apply to good guys
- Your emotional baggage is getting heavier
- Your biological clock doesn’t care about your “journey”
Meanwhile, We Watch You:
- Date guys who can’t hold a job
- Fall for men who ghost you
- Chase players who juggle multiple women
- Cry over cheaters who never changed
- Waste your prime years on lost causes
“You’ll want marriage material after the bad boys turn you into damaged goods”
The Reality Check You Need
Here’s what actually happens:
- Hit late 20s/early 30s
- Panic sets in
- Suddenly stability is sexy
- Now you’re “ready” for a good man
- Expected to clean up someone else’s mess
But Here’s Where It Gets Good
We’re not waiting anymore because:
- Our value increases with age
- We’ve built our empires while you played games
- We’ve found women who appreciate us early
- We’re not interested in being your safety net
- Our peace is worth more than your drama
To All The Women “Not Ready” for Good Men
Remember:
- Those butterflies? That’s anxiety
- That chemistry? That’s trauma
- Those challenges? Those are red flags
- That mystery? That’s emotional unavailability
- That excitement? That’s toxic patterns
The Inconvenient Truth
While you’re:
- “Finding yourself” in situationships
- Getting therapy from relationship trauma
- Posting sad quotes on Instagram
- Complaining “all men are trash”
- Finally realizing what you need…
We’re:
- Getting promotions
- Buying houses
- Finding women who choose us first
- Living drama-free lives
- Not accepting runner-up positions
“You’re not a prize for waiting until you’re done with bad decisions”
The Plot Twist
When you finally decide you’re “ready”:
- The good men you ignored? Happily married
- That stability you mocked? Someone else’s comfort
- The genuine love you rejected? Lighting up another home
- Those green flags you dismissed? Flying high in another woman’s yard
Final Thoughts
To the women still playing games:
- Your choices have expiration dates
- Good men aren’t rehabilitation centers
- We’re not your backup plan
- Our worth isn’t determined by your timing
- Your regrets aren’t our responsibility
“We’re not bitter. We’re just not blind anymore.”
Remember: While you’re chasing red flags, someone else is treasuring your missed opportunities.
Signed, The Good Guy Who Got Away
P.S. Thanks for teaching us our worth by showing us what we don’t deserve.