The Truth About Sex
We all know the stereotype: Men love sex.
It’s practically a given in pop culture, movies, and casual conversation. But here’s a twist for you — what happens when a guy meets a woman who actually wants it seven times a day? Yes, seven! Suddenly, the image of the insatiable man takes a hit, and all those wild expectations come crashing down.
A friend of mine once joked, “I love my girlfriend, but man, she’s got more energy than I can handle! I thought I had a high drive, but she’s on another level. It’s constant!” He was equal parts impressed and totally drained by it. And believe me, he’s not the only one.
It’s easy for men to boast about their stamina until they meet that rare woman who wants it all day, every day. Suddenly, it’s a different story. They’re like, “Twice a day? Sure, I can handle that.” But seven times? That’s when they start feeling like deer in headlights, not the alpha they thought they were.
One guy summed it up perfectly: “No sane person who’s gainfully employed has the energy for that!” It’s not about not appreciating the enthusiasm, but let’s be real — who has the time and stamina to keep up with a marathon like that?
Then there’s the classic argument that “Men aren’t porn stars, and sex isn’t a sport.” And honestly, that’s a solid point! In real life, people have jobs, families, chores, and a thousand other things going on that don’t involve trying to keep up with a never-ending cycle in the bedroom. Performing like that day in and day out? It’s not just unrealistic — it’s physically exhausting.
I came across a hilarious comment where a guy said, “Finding a woman who wants sex seven times a day is like finding a unicorn with purple stripes.” And, honestly, he’s onto something. Those who claim to want sex constantly are either daydreaming from a fantasy novel or trying to make their ex jealous on Instagram. In reality? Most people don’t operate that way.
Let’s not forget biology either. Men simply aren’t designed to go round after round the way women often can. “Women take longer to reach climax,” the old saying goes — and it’s true. Men don’t always need that much time, so keeping up that pace isn’t physically feasible.
Here’s a thought: when a woman wants it that often, sometimes it signals something deeper. It could be stress or just an emotional craving for closeness and connection. One commenter explained, “If a woman’s that needy, what she really wants is comfort and aftercare,” and that makes a lot of sense.
So, where’s the balance? Most people seem to land somewhere around once a day, maybe twice if it’s a lazy weekend. But seven times? That’s probably more of a fantasy — or reserved for those rare, long weekends of Netflix and, well… hoping the guy doesn’t pass out in the middle of it all.
What do you think? Have you ever met someone with a real high drive? Is seven times a day exciting, or just too much?